How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 22.06.2025 03:04
What I need from you?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Do married men know when their wives are having affairs?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Procrastinates a lot.
Russell Wilson: Nothing changes for me with Jaxson Dart here - NBC Sports
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What is a good way to conduct an interview?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Debunking 5 myths about when your devices get wet - The Conversation
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Is there any kind of mold that might be good for your skin?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Ask yourself:
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
What Happens to Your Blood Pressure When You Drink Energy Drinks Every Day? - Verywell Health
That's it for today.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What are the ten cars that make me no longer feel inferior?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
2025 Stanley Cup Finals Preview: Can Connor McDavid Finally Do It? - The Ringer
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Does not procrastinate.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Wells Fargo Stock Rises as Fed Lifts Asset Cap After 7 Years - Barron's
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.